Draplin makes two appearances at the Brooks this week. Tonight, he delivers “Tall Tales from a Large Man,” his treatise on the importance of bold design. A party with cash bar follows. On Friday, he gives a philosophy-of-life talk, “27-Point Plan to Ruin Yer Career,” at 10 a.m. Tickets for the Friday event are $8 for museum members, $12 for nonmembers.