It’s time for another tween/teen-friendly Memphis weekend! Keep in mind, my kids are 15, 12, 12, and 10 years old. As littles, there was always something fun for them — playdates, Mommy and Me classes, and park hops. As they crested in tweenhood, there seemed to be fewer fun options, so I’ve set out to find fun, safe, and engaging activities for the whole family.
Jumping World
After a long day of Friday testing at school, my teens are ready to let loose! But it’s too cold, so it must be indoors. The teens have been sitting quietly all day and need to be able to get loud. I think of just going home, but I recall the illegal “building” they tried to construct in the past, the crack in the glass door that still needs to be replaced, and the fact that we’ve just spent a whole weekend cleaning the walls and baseboards. So going home was not an option. Then I remembered Jumping World.
Jumping World is a trampoline park for kids who someday want to be on Ninja Warrior. They also have ball pits, slam dunk areas, and tumbling lanes. After putting on our required socks, my kids headed to the tumbling lanes. They jumped, bounced, yelled, and laughed from one end of the lane to the other. After about 15 minutes, they sat down next to me. (Yes, I’m sitting down. There’s only so much jumping my “baby bladder” can take.) They take a short break before it’s on to the next spot. They bounce and jump to slam dunk a ball. They bounce and jump to land in a ball pit. They even bounce and jump just to see if they can bounce higher. Lastly, an obstacle course. We have one child who is naturally competitive. Only no one knows that it’s even a competition until he announces that you’ve lost. After an hour and fifteen minutes, the teens are officially worn out!
Memphis Museum of Science History (MoSH, aka The Pink Palace)
MoSH is one of the few places where we have a family membership. (The other is the Memphis Chess Club.) If your kids are nerdy like mine are, you will want to get a membership here. And I love dinosaurs. I have a tattoo of tiny dinos down my arm. So when I heard about the new dino exhibit, I added it to the family calendar. Upon arriving, the teens went to their favorite spot, the gift shop. But after realizing that they would have to spend their own money, they quickly exited. Next, we went to see Sue. Did you know that dinosaurs can get arthritis? Or have you ever wondered what their breath smelled like? Do you like to watch suspenseful scenes where the predator sneaks up on the prey? All of that can be found in the exhibit. I loved the piece where you could feel the vibrations of a dinosaur’s roar. It was oddly satisfying. After having our fill of dinos, we went through the historical part. My teens still enjoy the Piggly Wiggly. They find it funny that a low-tech Kroger ClickList existed back then. (You see, back then, shoppers would give the clerk a paper grocery list. They would shop for you and bring it to you. Now, we do pretty much the same thing, but electronically.) Lastly, we went to see the “Everyday People” exhibit. This showcase is by Memphis artist Eric Echols. It shows the life of African Americans from 1900 to 1950-ish. It’s important for my kids to see images that show the history of African Americans in America that doesn’t only end in slavery. While the systemic struggles are real, so is our perseverance. During the first walkthrough, they just looked at the pictures. During the second, they took time to read some of the captions. They learned about the Black church, important Black Memphians, and how a picture can provoke a thousand emotions.
Belltower Cafe at Shelby Farms
We are a cafe-loving family! I love the coffees, and my teens love the pastries and free Wi-Fi. Belltower’s newest location at Shelby Farms is perfect. Instead of my typical Lavender Latte, I decided to be daring. (It helps that the featured latte was written all pretty-like, too.) I ordered a Raspberry Nutella Latte. I don’t have the words to express how good this latte is! The teens order their favorite snacks, pair them with hot chocolate, and set up their laptops. While they may look studious, the only thing they’re studying is how to get to the next level of their game. I’ve told you all before the boys love to go out, but to do the same thing they would do at home. But since they’re good kids, I don’t mind at all.
After about an hour, the sugar has fueled their souls. Now they run! They go into the open field and play, laugh, and, well, be teens. As for me, I watch them from the warmth of the central heat. I don’t feel bad not joining them. Because since we arrived, Hubby has been running miles around Shelby Farms and I truly believe he’s burning enough calories for the both of us.
Patricia Lockhart is a native Memphian who loves to read, write, cook, and eat. Her days are filled with laughter with her four kids and charming husband. By day, she’s a school librarian and writer, but by night … she’s asleep. @realworkwife @memphisismyboyfriend