Michael Donahue
I had the pleasure of being a guest of honor, along with Rufus Thomas, at Thomas’s birthday dinner given by Eugene Phillips. Judging by my hair, this should be the late ’80s or early ’90s. I’m with Carla Thomas, Rufus Thomas, Willie Bland and Ethan Taylor.
Parties given by Eugene Phillips are a part of Memphis music history many people donโt know about.
I began attending birthday parties given by Phillips for Rufus Thomas about 30-plus years ago. My birthday is around the same time as Thomasโs, so my birthday was celebrated, too.
They were amazing when I think back. Carla Thomas, Rufusโs daughter, was there and other music notables or relatives of music notables.
Phillips hasnโt stopped giving parties with music guests. In addition to celebrating Rufusโs birthday back in the day, Phillips celebrates his own birthday. I attended his recent birthday party, which was held February 10th at his Germantown home. His long-time friend Anita Ward, whose 1979 recording of “Ring My Bell” was a hit song, was among the guests.
I asked Phillips to tell me the history of his parties.
โOver 40 years ago, Sandy Lewis, who was on the board of St. Jude, took me on a tour of the hospital and I was so impressed,โ Phillips says. โAnd, I remember, on my birthday people were always giving me a lot of gifts. Things I didnโt need.โ
He told Ward, who was his next door, โI was thinking. Iโve got a birthday coming up. Iโm going to ask them to take that money and donate to St. Jude. And they started doing it.โ
To date, Phillips says heโs raised โover $80,000โ for St. Jude.
The birthday parties for Rufus also began about 40 years ago, Phillips says. โI gave Rufus a birthday party. And Rufus told me, โI donโt care whatโs going on on my birthday, what other people plan, I want my birthday dinner at your house.โ This is what he told me years ago. Thatโs why every year I always held Rufusโs annual birthday dinner. โCause Rufus always enjoyed being in my home and with friends. People he felt comfortable around.โ
Rufus had โtwo birthdays,โ Phillips says. โThe way that happened was he always celebrated on the 26th, and found out in later years his birthday was on the 27th.โ
I remember the lavish spreads at Rufusโ birthday parties at Phillips’ home. โBaked turkey and dressing and candied yams. Rufus liked real food. We had a variety of salads and vegetables and wine. We just had everything.โ
Rooms in Phillipsโs home are named after his friends. Heโs got the Rufus Thomas music room, the Bobby โBlueโ Bland room, the George Nichopoulos room, the Pat Vanderschaaf room, and hallways named after Ward and attorney Jocalyn Wurzburg, and rooms named after Kelly and Dr, Greg Hanissian, Vera and N. J. Ford, and the children of the Church of God in Christ founder, the late Bishop C. H. Mason.
I asked him to save the garage for me.
Photos of his friends line the walls upstairs and downstairs in Phillipsโs home.
โIt is so nice to have memories,โ Phillips says.
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Eugene Phillips birthday dinner.
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Michael Fahr, Zeina Alwafai and Eugene Phillips at Phillips birthday party.
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Andreas Kisler with his wife, JoAnn, and son, Blade at Memphis Restaurant Association’s 55th annual banquet.
Chefs Andreas Kisler and Patrick Reilly, and non-chef (at least professionally) Shawn Massey brought home the bacon this year at the Memphis Restaurant Associationโs 55th annual banquet, which was held February 24th at The Peabody.
Kisler, executive chef at The Peabody, was named Chef of the Year. Reilly, who, along with his wife, Deni, own The Majestic Grille, is Restaurateur of the Year. And Massey, a partner in the Memphis Office of The Shopping Center Group (TSCG), was named Associate Member of the Year.
Ernie Mellor is Memphis Restaurant Association president. Father Nicholas Vieron gave the invocation.
As one would expect, lots of food was on hand, including the cocktail portion of the evening. And, as one would expect, Kisler was in the kitchen getting the food ready.
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Patrick and Deni Reilly at Memphis Restaurant Association banquet.
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Shawn and Price Massey at Memphis Restaurant Association banquet.
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Lynn and Ernie Mellor at Memphis Restaurant Association banquet.
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Taylor and Hannah Hemphill at Memphis Restaurant Association banquet.
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Amanda and Drew Cipala at Memphis Restaurant Association banquet.
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Nick, a St. Jude patient, and Richard Shadyac at St. Jude Spirit of the Dream.
This yearโs St. Jude Spirit of the Dream event honored the legacy African-Americans have contributed to St. Jude Childrenโs Research Hospital.
More than 350 attended the event, which was held February 22nd in the Domino Event Center at St. Jude Childrenโs Research Hospital.
A C Wharton acknowledged Dr. Rudolph Jackson, St. Judeโs first African-American doctor; attorney Robert L. J. Spence, the hospitalโs first African-American pharmacist; and Dr. William Terrell, St. Judeโs first African-American resident.
A total of $110,000 was raised.
Gary Goinโs G3 Band performed.
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A C Wharton and Mayor Jim Strickland at St. Jude Spirit of the Dream.
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Christopher Greer and Javaris Tucker at St. Jude Spirit of the Dream.
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Kiesha Davis and Christopher Capel at St. Jude Spirit of the Dream.
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Les Passes Cabaret
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โHavana Nightsโ was the theme of this yearโs Les Passees Cabaret, which was held February 23rd at Memphis Botanic Garden. That meant guests dined on mojo-marinated pork tenderloin, ropa vieja (slow cooked Cuban beef), and papas bravas (Spanish roasted peanuts).
The tradition of Living Ads – young women representing businesses and individuals – continued. This yearโs Ads were Madison Elizabeth Anton, Annie Laurie McPherson and Savanna Theresa St. John.
Kacie Cooper and Missy Green were Cabaret co-chairs. Suzanne Oliphant is Les Passees president.
A total of 220 people attended.
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Les Passes Cabaret
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Zachary Clark and Anna Hunigan at Madonna Learning Center gala.
Itโs not every fundraiser where most of the audience sticks around for a live auction that ends around 10:30. But thatโs what a lot of people at the Madonna Learning Center Annual Gala and Auction did.
More than 900 people attended the event, โA Night of Reel Fun,โ says the centerโs development director Carrie Roberts. The party was held February 23rd at the Hilton Memphis.
The live auction raised more than $72,000. And, Roberts says, Light Up the House, where โpeople donate money to help support usโ during the event, raised an additional $40,000.
The silent auction raised $47,000.
โWeโre very happy with our numbers this year,โ she says.
As for this year being a record, Roberts doesnโt yet know. But, she says, โWeโre neck-and-neck with last year, which was a record.โ
Aggie Fratta was event chair. The Soul Shockers performed.
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Katie Elliot, Jordan Bruce, Bill Frese, and Tricia Frese at Madonna Learning Center gala.
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John Scalisi and Andria Destefano at Madonna Learning Center gala.
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Phillip Hicks and Olivia Ameigh at Memphis Garden Gala.
Guests were asked to dress in snow skiing attire for the third annual Memphis Garden Gala, which was held February 23rd at Teton Trek at the Memphis Zoo. โApres Skiโ was the theme.
But that day was one of those crazy February Memphis days when the weather was in the 70s.
That night, the weather still was balmy, but most people โ even those bundled up โ didnโt seem to mind.
The event, which drew 200 people, was a fund-raiser for Big Green, a nonprofit founded by Kimbal Musk and Hugo Matheson dedicated to building a healthier future for children through a nationwide network of Learning Gardens and food literacy programs.
The first Big Green Memphis Learning Garden, where students are exposed to life cycles of fruits and vegetables, was built in 2015. Now, 122 more have been built and another six more are slated to be built by July, 2019.
โApres Skiโ featured live and silent auctions. Dinner was by chefs Jose Gutierrez of River Oaks, Will Byrd of City Silo Table + Pantry, Patrick Reilly of Majestic Grille, and Konrad Spitzbart of The Peabody.
Lisa Ellis is Big Green Memphis regional director.
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Connor Glennon and Kristen Rotenberry at Memphis Garden Gala.
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Emily and Mitchell Lindsey at Memphis Garden Gala.

