A Wake-up Call?

To the Editor:

The Flyer‘s cover story on daycare (“The

Daycare Dilemma,” February 21st issue) was, I hope, a

wake-up call to responsible lawmakers and diligent

parents. The problems we see with child care are the same

we see with elder care. Integrity is at an all-time low

in business today, and the children and elderly are

the easiest to scam because they have no voice.

To say both systems are broken is true. To say

the politicians will fix it is a lie. Until these situations

personally affect them they will continue to see them

as someone else’s problems. Our political leaders

don’t use subsidized child care or elder care. They

make enough to afford reputable care for their

vulnerable family members. It’s like asking a single guy what

it’s like to be married. It just doesn’t make sense.

There is a way to make it work and work well.

In researching child care around the country and

around the world I’ve found many systems in urban

situations that work and many, like Memphis’, that

don’t. We should learn from cities and states that are

successful. There is no need to be a pioneer in

something such as child care. Children need unconditional

love, nurturing, and stimulation.

It will take some time and patience; it won’t

happen overnight, and some folks will be

inconvenienced. Our impatient, quick-fix society caused this

debacle, and we are going to have to paddle backward

for awhile.

Parents need to work on a community solution

and work with their lawmakers. Children are too

valuable to become pawns in a political war. They will

become the casualties if a peaceful solution is not reached.

Melissa Geralds

Memphis

Hooray

To the Editor:

Hooray to the Flyer for bringing out what

makes Memphis so powerful. The article on Robert

Worsham (“Silent Giant,” February 21st issue) not only let

us know who penned that excellent poem but also

gave us a glimpse into the life of one of the many

citizens who hold Memphis together.

For too long in our city we have given the

spotlight to racists, both black and white, who have

influenced community attitudes. Worsham showcased

the fact that the real struggle was and is not just

between black and white but neighbor against neighbor.

This was evidenced by his being disrespected on a city

bus by a pair of young and ignorant knuckleheads of

his own color. I look down and I see white skin on

my hands, but a person with Robert Worsham’s

character is someone I would call “my people.”

Clint Norwood

Memphis

Not a NARAS Fan

To the Editor:

In the 10 years I have lived in Memphis I

have learned that one thing I can count on is the

annual neglect and misrepresentation of much

that Memphis music has to offer via the NARAS Premier

Player Awards. Out of the diverse multitude of talented

bands writing and performing quality music, we see the

same handful of names year after year with minimal

exceptions. With all due respect to all these unquestionably

qualified nominated artists, the awards ceremony

consistently represents only a small percentage of the quality

entertainment around.

It is a shame that so much Memphis talent is

consistently overlooked: King’s Trio, Memphis Soul Revue, Dr. Zarr,

Scott Sudbury, Carson & Poole, Jon Roth — just to name a few. If

it is an “originals vs. cover bands credibility thing,” there’s

nothing more credible than putting food on your table and a

roof over your head by performing music. I don’t care who

wrote the songs.

Rawleigh Hartzell

Memphis

Not a Distraction?

To the Editor:

Shame on Memphis University School for the ad they

placed in your February 7th issue. A line in the ad read,

“No distractions. Like girls.”

I wasn’t aware that girls were allowed into

public schools solely to be a “distraction” to boys. I

thought they were there to learn. Furthermore, looking at the

tendency of public school teachers to ignore girls in favor

of boys in the classroom (a tendency which has been

documented repeatedly by social scientists), one wonders

who the real distraction is here.

I’m sure there is a place for boys-only and

girls-only schools in this great country, but there is no place

for sexism in the schools our children attend. I hope

MUS submits an ad more tasteful and more pertinent to

actual education.

Dana Seilhan

Memphis

Editor’s Note: Due to a production error in last week’s issue of

the Flyer, the headline for John Branston’s City Beat article (“Who

Do You Know?”) was incorrect.

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